People who live with Dementia can become anxious and frightened at times and may have trouble recognising people. Their behaviour can be unusual or awkward and they may find it hard to express themselves or understand people. However, feelings remain as does spiritual awareness. Visits can stimulate warm feelings, bring comfort and reaffirm spiritual truths.
-Wear something bright or colourful
-Approach from the front (don’t tap on the back or shoulder)
-Introduce yourself with an explanation
-Smile and make eye contact
-Sit at the same level, perhaps touch their hand if appropriate
-Speak simply, one comment at a time
-Listen and give time for answers or comments
-Be positive and reassuring
-Be patient
-Accept Incorrect statements as they may be caused by memory loss or faulty logic
-Acknowledge the emotions behind the words
-Play a game – checkers, dominoes, etc.
-Listen to a CD – familiar music, hymns or songs
-Watch a DVD of flowers, gardens, water views
-Reminisce about the past, people or places
-Look at photographs or illustrated books
-Read a passage from their favourite book
-Smile, and share laughter